How many times are we told not to put our eggs all in one basket? But when it comes to loving your kids, how can you help but be all in? Loving them a little is like being a little pregnant - just doesn't happen. You might not like them all the time, but loving them? I don't think that stops.
So I'm having a particularly difficult time with the fact that one of my teenage sons is quite angry with me. I didn't do anything deliberately mean to him, but in his worldview, he deserves to be cold and withdrawn from me. As a parent, I know I'm supposed to rise above his anger and remain loving, patient, etc. As a person, it's difficult to stay open to someone who's so committed to his angry resolve.
Any suggestions?
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